Many children and teens are unaware of how dysfunctional of a lifestyle their parents are raising them in. Many children do not know how dysfunctional they are being raised to be. Their parents’ lives have been manipulated to the point where they don’t even realize they aren’t even raising their children yet distracting them from their Real Reality of the World which isn’t Real or Right. Children are growing to mimic lifestyles that are unproductive, unhealthy, and not conducive to a way of life that promotes freedom to be ones’ self or even freedom to be a child. Children cannot express their opinions, cannot make their own choices, do not have healthy choices to choose from, and are being used as silenced slaves and/or as another means of income within the home. From the outside looking in these families look to be functional due to the glitz and glam of excessive material possession, and the mastering of “Wearing the mask that grins and Lies, hides their cheeks and shades their eyes.”-PLD The debt we leave to children as adults is astronomical. The more society places emphasis on obtaining as much material possession as you can, parents are not realizing how much they are obtaining while leaving their children’s mentalities behind. Not only are children being left behind, they aren’t even being properly taught how to function in society that they are just thrown into, to be viewed as having a young adult mindset and mentality, once they turn the working age of 14. They act like it but they really are mimicking instead of doing what they understand is best for the to do.
The unpreparedness of a child leads to unproductive adults in a society that is already spiraling in dysfunction. Businesses wonder why their employee turnover rate is so high and so constant, landlords wonder why their tenant turnover rate is so constant and always a struggle to keep one who can stay long enough to form an owner-tenant relationship, and schools wonder why they can’t keep a child’s attention long enough to learn necessary concepts, it is because these children are the adults who still possess the mindset of being mentally, verbally, and/or physically abused as a child. They are being trained within their homes to be unresponsive and developing habits of tuning out things that trigger emotions of neglect. The honest truth becomes unbearable to one’s ears because the pain they are covering up physically hurts on the inside once it resurfaces. These children grow to have children and as adults they mimic the same patterns as their parents forcing the cycle of dysfunction to continue. How can we break these patterns to retrain a society that can ascend a nation of people to Resist & Eliminate these Addicting Lifestyles and habits of negative behaviors? We cannot, they must be willing to change themselves.
There are many children who cannot listen at the elementary level of schooling because they are rebelling against their parents at home. The school teaches a child to listen to their parents and the parents tell the children to not listen to what they’re being taught at their school. Someone or something must be a bridge between the contradiction of both these clashing concepts. Someone or something must put an end to the confusion. We must stand up for these broken children rebelling against a tainted and broken society and negative familial structure who words can never seem to match their actions. We must hold their hands before and past the age 14 until they are capable, willing, and ready to venture off on their own. There isn’t a time limit on that, some children mature and grow slower than others. If it worked for me, it can work for any child. We must give them time to unlearn all they’ve been negatively taught and relearn all that can positively help them to grow. We know how so We Will. Together as one we can achieve such change.
It’s time We show Our Children A Better Way, a Way that Works for All of Us and Not a Selective Few!!!
Be Blessed People!
