“Train a child in the way that they should go and they shall never depart from it.”
Habits are hard to break!
We must learn to become independent. Codependency has many of us feeling as if we need other people to survive. As we do need other people to help experience life with, once we have fully developed into “adulthood” we should be able to operate fully on our own. The world likes to call this “being self-sufficient”.
The first thing we must realize is that we have detached from our Mother’s Womb. When that umbilical cord detached that was the start of us learning to become self-sufficient. Many people like to stick to their parents their whole lives but remaining codependent on our parents may force them to be codependent on us. The goal of leaving our parents is to start our own family. As we reference our parents we do not rely on them to help us sustain within adulthood. Help is one thing but dependency is a whole other ball game. Dependency means ” I don’t want to take care of myself.” You force yourself into a child like mentally of always needing help and guidance.
We must be careful with this because the universe eventually forces you to grow up and you do not know how to be a responsible adult, more than likely you will wonder aimlessly in the streets living a bum lifestyle. R
Remember: Everyone CANNOT recover from certain experiences, so therefore, DO NOT set your life up to be put in a predicament you cannot recover from.
We must detach from Mother Earth. The earth blesses us with many things that helps us to heal, grow, and live. Yet, many of us forget to give back to the earth. Usually there is no equal give and take. Do you plant trees, grow your own food, or even recycle? There are many ways we can give back to the earth, so we should not be dependent upon the earth to sustain us if we aren’t helping the earth to sustain itself. Before the earth kills itself best believe it will kill all of us first.
Somehow we must detach from The Most High. As Universal Source Energy is always around to help us, if we become dependent on The Higher Power to keep helping us, we never learn to help ourselves. If we don’t search from always receiving help we do not learn how to properly give help. The facade of helping for your own benefit begins to take over and we use and abuse those who are closest to us.
As we come from many different households, men play different roles, as we know many are absent from the lives of their families, and some are still around. However what are men or father’s providing for the children today and what can they do more of? Many people use the excuse of not having a father around as to why their life is the way that it is but if we detach from the absence, our lives can be shaped different. If a man wasn’t present in your life know that it was a moment for you to build your own masculine energy and balance it with the feminine energy present in your life. If you had a father around make sure the example he set was one that you would look for in your own kingdom spouse and not one that you would have to divorce from however, detaching from the father figure helps you to grow to defend and protect yourself first.
Detachment is for healing and growing. It’s for isolation and knowing and understanding yourself. It’s understanding your dark and light sides of yourself. You become comfortable in your own skin.
What are some things we need to Attach to if we are detaching from everything else?
Attach yourself to Self-sufficiency. No one can live your life like you or for you. No one can give your life the luxury to the extent that you would.
We do not want others making decisions for our lives because they will breadcrumb your success and keep the riches for themselves. People usually keep the good stuff and give away that which they do not feel worthy of keeping because they can’t benefit off of that which they cannot use. Do not allow others to use you if you cannot use them in return for anything that helps your soul to grow.
We should be attaching to leadership. Lead your own life because others will lead you straight into their own path. Many spend a lifetime at one job receiving breadcrumbs while the CEO lives a luxurious lifestyle. They can’t live that lifestyle without the bottom line so why can’t they afford the same benefits to their bottom line. It’s NOT impossible.
In fact, did you know….. There is a coat company whose CEO makes just as much as ALL of their employees. He never lost one and the company grew into a fortune 500 company within a matter of years. Everyone in the company learned and grew at the same place and became successful at the same time. If they can do it so can the company you work for. If your company isn’t Sharing the wealth, leave them immediately. Find one that is or start working for yourself.
Let’s work towards attaching to Bridging the Gap between Spiritual and Material Wealth, and Personal Transformation. When we are connected to life spiritually, all of our material needs will be met. We can’t expect a huge grand gesture overnight but we can work towards perfecting our lives and the things and people associated with us. Attach to all things that pushes your life into a loving, excited, caring and fun energy. But also let these emotions take you to a place to defend all that which have built up for yourself and know that no one take what’s yours unless you give it away.
As we learn more about what we should attach and detach to and from we have to learn to remember the less fortunate. Sometimes we see the good in people that others can’t recognize because of a person’s past. Learn to ignore a person’s past and help them heal from it and grow towards the future. Living in the now helps us understand who truly needs help and who does not because we recognize those who are enjoying life vs those who are not.
Let’s stop being afraid.
Stop being afraid to open your own business, work for yourself, or make your own money. Let’s stop being afraid to fulfill ourselves emotionally. Needing others to fulfill us emotionally takes us down a spiral of confusion and disappointment.
Sometimes fear forces us to run away from the things we do not want in our lives. Do not run because how would you know what you want if we do not face those issues head on dealing with that which we don’t want. We must go through it to understand why we want what we want so that we do not allow others to come in and take it from us. Then we have to fight for our won power back over our own lives.
Resist attachment because the universe has a way of bringing all things down that do not serve us. So if we want a positive life and we are seeking Source Energy to provide that expect some things to be removed from your life, either willing or by force. Force doesn’t feel good, therefore, use your own power to push your own life on the path that YOU KNOW it should be on. We do not want to live a life of struggle for all of our days. The only reason our lives are slowed down is because we do not want to depend on Self and Source to survive. Depending on others is way easier but it is not safe.
With Love, Loyalty, Honesty and Respect Be Blessed in Knowing that YOU CAN DO THIS THING CALLED LIFE ON YOUR OWN MY PEOPLE!
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