One thing for sure and two things for certain…. it is NOT Love!
Over the course of history most conflicts derive from a conflicting love interest. People fight for the Love for/of a person, place, thing, scenery, or lifestyle. War breaks out due to a fight to defend one’s territory. It is a fight for control. Someone wants to be seen as the victor, the head honcho, the end all be all. It is an egotistical demand for attention. The ironic part is that what most people fight for isn’t really what they need. Had they not fought, they would have gotten what they deserved!
To war with others reflects the battles that we have with ourselves. The words and actions of others can project an after-effect of the target feeling self-conscious. No matter how much a person says that someone words and actions does not matter to them, deep down inside they are still affected. The initial confrontation may sting, but just like any shot injected into the skin, it flows deep within our bloodstream. Depending on the quality of the injection, if what’s injected into our systems doesn’t mix well or sit well with us, it will transform into an illness and/or dysfunction, also affecting and infecting other areas of the body. We either address it, let it fester, or cleanse it out.
It is best to address issues head-on, right then and there. The best opportunity to check a problem is right at the moment that it is occurring. A couple of things will happen, the person bringing the problem would learn not to do that because you are showing them that you are able to defend yourself. Secondly it shows onlookers the same example. Lastly, you walk away with your strength, (controlling your emotion), your courage, (defending your emotion), and your confidence, (standing in authority and surety of who you are).
The moment you choose to walk away from an unaddressed issue, on one end the person may think they’ve gotten away with hurting you, on another end you end up carrying the burdens of the disrespect. You are forced to redirect that energy someplace else. If you do not address it with the person who brought the bad energy towards you, You may end up lashing out at the wrong person, or even taking it out on yourself. It is not your fault how other people feel about you. It is your obligation to yourself to not allow them to change how you feel about yourself. Some people throw the attention your way to take the attention away from them. That is due to their own insecurities. It is your job to send that energy back or force them to face the conflict they are having with themselves, if you are able to discern that! The moment you DO NOT, they win, and you lose a piece of yourself that they get to walk away with. Learn to address issues and keep your power.
What we should do not is allow ourselves to challenge others who are trying to separate from us. We should not challenge someone out of revenge. We should not try to get someone back for choosing to do something that no longer involves us. We should try to one up them or prove that we can do better. For without the challenge, new and better always comes towards us if we choose not to focus on what was lost. To fight over what we lose and cause blockages in someone else’s path is your karma. Others choosing not to fight with you is their dharma. The best thing to do when things or people in our lives change is to not resist the change but adapt. All conflict needs to be addressed, yes, but a war doesn’t have to break out after a decision has been made. Simply, walk away!
Battling the war with yourself, can shift the energy of those within your bloodline and those who are tapped into your energy. You send off a ripple effect of change within the subconscious of those who resonate with your energy. What you do and respond to doesn’t only affect you, it affects everyone around or associated with you as well. A light bulb brightens up the entire room for everyone, that is how our energy can have a touching effect on others in the same room as us. That energy can spread throughout the world if we are in total darkness.
The wars on the outside stems from a source. Pinpointing that source can be hard because usually the one who throws the rock tends to hide behind the one who is willing to fight. More than likely, they are hiding because they are lying about why they started the war, and usually it’s because they just simply want things done their way. Having things their way only benefits them, it rarely benefits the whole. They become egotistical with power control issues. While they are in a position of power to do so, they cling to that position of power as long as they can to receive what it is that they want, even at the expense of themselves. They are trying to prove a point to themselves that doesn’t matter to anyone, except them. In fact, it may be detrimental for them if they don’t decide to change. Just remember that defeat is their ultimate goal, not love or happiness.
To war with doing the right thing is simply a war between good and evil. We stay in love, but we do not battle over love. Our love interest change as we grow and progress in life. If our partners or people associated with us do not grow and evolve with us, then we outgrow them. We are forced to move on. Those who do not want us to go will have a hard time, put up a fight, and eventually start a war to stop that change from happening. Sometimes the fight back is necessary but only to the point where we can confidently walk away knowing that they cannot control our outcome. The best thing is to recognize that they want to fight because then you stay ahead of the challenge. It’s up to you how you decide to battle them. Love doesn’t want to see battles. Love wants to see compromise. So, anyone allowing you to go to war doesn’t love you, that’s not something that should be fought for. They’ve attempted to have their cake and eat it too, that doesn’t mean you go on the battle ground defending that for them. Mistakes happen, and people have to live with the mistakes they’ve made because not with all people is one able to get a second chance.
Take heed to the battles people want you to face. All battles are not yours.
With Agape, loyalty, honesty, and Respect, Be Blessed without Conflict My People❣️
Invite The Truth 