“It’s okay to selfishly align with self…” ~ The Hicks
Now is the time to learn how to Self-Govern. We have spent majority of our lives being led by others without question. However, when we begin to question ourselves, we often allow others to diminish how we truly feel. STOP DOING THAT!
YOU KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. OWN UP TO IT!
Becoming selfish with our needs should not cause a burden to our souls, it should relieve us of the toxic debt of holding on to the unwanted. When we know that we just cannot allow certain things to happen or give to people because they gave us a sob story, we must learn to stick to our guts and our grits and remain bold enough to hold on to what is rightfully ours. You know the things we cannot afford to lose in a given moment. Those are the things we do not have to give away!!!!
Most people ask for things for their own benefit, unless a child or a spouse is involved in that person’s life, most people are out to get what they want when they want it. They are quite selfish about it and rarely think about the whole. They simply want their slice of the YOUR PIE. They ask despite you having to suffer lack. They know how to transfer energy and power. The more you suffer lack, the easier it is for them to rise above you. You’d be surprised who’s willing to kick you while you’re down before they offer you a hand to help you stay standing up. Many people won’t share their benefits but expect for you to share yours. Their accumulation makes them feel superior. Let no one have that advantage over you and you should not make others feel inferior to you either. It’s just naturally unhealthy.
How do we gain autonomy and authority over ourselves?
Knowledge, wisdom, and understanding of self are key components in mastering those abilities. We must face each issue and each person head on. We pull the fire out of ourselves and become the boss over our own lives. We create a way to boldly express “NO”. We take charge over our mind. We listen to our intuition, knowing that the choice that we make in any given moment is for our highest good. There are other ways that we can serve and help people without given away too much of ourselves.
We can become a shoulder to lean on. Give someone a hug or a seat, become that listening ear and just allow them to vent their feelings. A solution to their problems will come to them as they express themselves. Be in arms reach of people but handle them at arms-length, keeping your distance enough for you to escape or allow them to keep on moving. You can become a helping hand by helping them carry their baggage, while they move from one place to the next if you guys are headed in the same direction. Give them some temporary relief. Those are just a few examples.
What we do not want to do is play both sides. We do not want to be an enabler and a crutch to their intentions of taking. We limit ourselves to what we are willing to give away vs what we must keep for ourselves.
How?
We evaluate our possessions. We do not give away what we cannot afford to replace. We do not give away what we do not have excess of. We do not give away what belongs to other people. We give away what we do not need or can let go of without remorse.
This transition takes some time but eventually we must all prepare ourselves for the changing of the tides of giving and receiving. People cannot afford to be used anymore. Treat people how you want to be treated because karma these days are instant, and we are reaping what we sow by the minute of our actions. Choose your actions wisely.
When we choose to set standards for our personal lives, we make sure that everyone gets the message, because if you left one person slip through the cracks, they will tell someone else to try. If that next person doesn’t succeed, then expect an unwanted reaction to occur. Self-defense will be a must in that moment.
Some may be upset at the new you, but hey, you will be led to other, new, like-minded people that you can enjoy. Protect yourself at all costs because people will destroy you if you allow it.
👑With Agape, Loyalty, Honesty, and Respect Be Blessed with Independent Freedom My People❣️
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