Before using your personal power to help others, use your personal power to help YOURSELF!!
Sometimes we have to really focus our energy in on ourselves. When trying to do that it can be difficult because energy vampires come from all directions AS we are feeding our Success. We must learn to really starve our distractions. That takes major tunnel vision. We have to keep our eyes and minds directly towards what we are trying to achieve and not allow others to lead us astray or interrupt our train of thought.
This Season is about leading and protecting ourselves. We cannot lead and protect others if we aren’t sure of our own capabilities. The capabilities that we possess should not be handed down to us but built within us by us according to our own trials, tribulations, experiences, and education. We take the good and the bad because that is how we balance the scales of our own inner justice system. The system that dictates our mindset, what controls our hands, and direct the steps of our feet. It’s what aligns the heart, the mind, the body, and the soul. If all four corners of your entire being isn’t controlled by you, then who is it being controlled by?
We must proceed with caution when it comes to our longevity because no one is going to secure us. We must put in our own work to secure ourselves. Sometimes that takes Spirit taking the Wheel, other times it takes US being firm in our decisions. When we do exactly what we say we are going to do, not only are we mentally and physically strengthened by our own will, but our relationship with ourselves becomes totally balanced out. Without balance of our own free will we lose control over the things that we possess dominion over and there’s no telling how long you will be granted the grace to get it all back.
When losing everything the key to getting it all back is EXPOSURE. We must expose our true self. We must expose who and what we are stepping into power for. We must choose to do the right thing despite all odds. When we release the devil’s toxicity, we release all things given to us by evil. NO MATTER WHAT adversity is thrown at us we must believe in the unseen and divine forces to carry us through. I mean literally walking by faith and not by sight. We must become blind to the material realm in order to see things from a spiritual level. If one isn’t able to let go of materialism, one can never grow through Spirituality let alone come out of low vibrational patterns that leaves one stuck in the abyss between their heaven and their hell. Allow The High Vibrational Beings to replace that what may be taken away with our darkness. We can make that decision for ourselves, or we can allow the Universe to make those decisions for us.
I don’t think you want the Universe to take control because the experience isn’t as pleasant and pretty as one may think.
How do we make it to the other side?
We drop codependency. We retrain our mind to not hold on so tightly to the things, structures, or people that help us survive. Everything and everyone have an expiration date. All things die but not all things can be reborn. We must learn to become independent on all levels physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
Physically being attached to others means you are not just manifesting or creating for yourself, but you are also manifesting for that other person as well. Depending on if that other person is connected to someone else, you may be transferring your rewards to an unknown third party.
How would you know?
You will know whether or not the person you are connected to is manifesting for someone else because you will not gain anything from the connection. Your weight won’t go up, your finances will be drained, your energy will suffer lack, and the Universe will keep stripping you of all of your material possessions. Be very careful with codependency.
Mentally being attached to someone means that you and someone blend energies to create opportunities that can help many other people. Being attached to the wrong person may mean that someone is running off with your creativity and claiming it as their own, leaving you with nothing in return for the energy that you put into it. However, the Universe always return energies and balances the scales. So, continue doing your part because your rewards may not come from the ill-willed person, but it will come back to you.
Emotional attachment suggests that you are emotionally invested into the outcome of a situation. Thinking and believing that only one outcome is possible can leave you very disappointed because you are leaving no space for God or the Universal Source Energies to do their part. We’ve all heard of the 80/20 rules. its 80/20 because we should always leave space for input from someone or something else. What’s a world without sharing with others. Independence doesn’t mean that you do all things alone, it means that you put in as much effort as you can afford to. Making that head over lustful decisions isn’t easy but it’s worth it in the end.
Spiritually being attached to someone means someone has attached themselves to your future. People can look at you or research you in Spiritual ways that can determine the outcome of your future success. Some may plot and plan to help you succeed and others may plot and plan to cause blockages and hardships to attempt to get you to give up and fail yourself. Think about the long-term effects of being Spiritually inclined. That helps with determining the effects and consequences of our actions. When we are spiritually aware of the consequences and effects of our actions, we can control our emotions. Not being as independent as we may like can cause us to be unhappy. We can act out those emotions subconsciously.
In any and all relationships, with self or with others, you should maintain your own independence. That means stay in control of everything you have built for yourself. Don’t hand any of it over to your partner. We materialize a partner to be there to help us fill in the blanks of our lives, as we should be filling in their blanks as well. NO one should enter into a relationship needing to be taken care of. That is what creates an imbalance and disparity within the household/business/ partnership/friendship, etc.
Relationships of all kinds should bring you Peace, Fortunes, Freedom. They should be helping you head in the right direction, one that is best for you, not what is best for them. Being comfortable and confident with Ourselves means that we are able to accept those who are not for us, and/or accept leaving behind those that we may outgrow. God will send permanent people in your life after all of the temporaries.
What battles can you give to the Lord instead of taking justice into your own hands? If you choose to take battles into your own hands, are you mentally or physically prepared for the karma that may come behind those actions?
How do we avoid the drama?
Answer: Quality over Quantity. (I’m sure we all innerstand what that means.)
Consider who you could join/partner/defend in front of and behind each others’ back. When choosing to do so ask yourself are you in love or are you in lust?
What are some possible outcomes of the actions you are taking now? Where will your actions lead you in the future?
How comfortable are you with allowing others to see or witness who/what you have chosen to defend/stand by/ be with? What path have you chosen for yourself?
EXPLORING THE TUFF QUESTIONS
Maintaining self-sufficiency may require some adjustments. Be grateful that you are able to do for self.
Think of a time when you had to be codependent, how did it make you feel?
- Who or what do you intentionally plan on pursuiing this week?
- What goals would you like to achieve?
- What kind of effort is needed to achieve or accomplish these goals?
You have 3 days to explore this energy…
Think of ways you can work more towards being independent.
Think of things/people/places that you can stop being codependent on.
Think of who you can share this new beginning with.
👑With Agape, Loyalty, Honesty, and Respect Be Blessed with DUALITY My People❣️
Invite The Truth 