Self-Governing is what it means to be Autonomous. The main priority for a Human Being should be to learn how to fully take care of themselves. We have the power within ourselves to act upon that decision, sometimes whether we want to do it or not. The Earth was designed and created for us to do just that; Live and learn how to be independent, yet co-dependent on its resources for survival.
As much as we want power and control over others, we cannot possess any form of power or control over anything or anyone if we cannot learn to govern ourselves. To have your needs fulfilled by you, yourself, means you aren’t out looking for anyone else to fulfill them. You would know the direct source as to where to find the resources available for you to fulfill your needs. Once your own needs have been met, you have a CHOICE. There’s a choice to become so full of yourself for being able to be autonomous that you may go around bragging, boasting, and throwing your success in the face of others making them feel inferior to you. Then there’s also a choice of creating a path for others to follow that can lead them to share the same light with you. One choice attracts a toxic co-dependency, the other brings you a sense of relief.
Both states of being, rather it be a toxic co-dependent situation or state of internal relief, brings forth the presence and the reminder of The Creator. Either you are going to pray your way out of a bad situation or give gratitude for going within and sticking to your gut, staying on your own course of autonomy. Children possess the capabilities of being in both states at the same time. They are SELF-DETERMINED to be in a state of autonomy. Children begin the learning process with a mindset of “I can do it myself” and the parent is eager to allow it. At what point during the growing process does the Parents take back that freedom in exchange for control? How do we end up with grown adults who are still stuck in a child’s place? For children to develop the mindset of wanting to be free from being controlled at such a young age gives us insight as to how we should lead them. We are to teach freedom, accountability, and responsibility. Once we have instilled the basics of survival in the world, autonomy should be viewed as a bird flying free of its nest. How many birds return home? When we set our children free, we gave space for The Creator to step in and catch them if they cannot stay afloat. In essence He still has a role to play in their growth as well.
Life may not always end up as we intended. Things may go in another direction. People may choose other benefactors to help them. It is easy to point the blame, give excuses, blame it on genetics, or use substances to abuse our own mindset. The mindless will do whatever they want and whatever it takes to remain in a co-dependent situation, either by choice or by force. We all have FREE WILL. We have the choice to revoke our children’s power, refuse our own autonomy, and/or we also have the option to allow self-determination. We also possess the will power to fight for our freedoms or succumb to being overpowered by co-dependency. All of which have consequences be it positive or negative. Being tied to the wrong person can force the Almighty to take back everything He ever gave you and block you from being nurtured by the Earth Mother. Being tied to the right person allows you to keep that what you were granted and increase beyond measure. Free Will doesn’t mean that we have the option to make a bad decision, it means that we are given space to grow out of the mistakes we make while learning how to be and do better. No matter what with every encounter that we face, we have a choice. Not living in reality makes that choice very hard to decide upon.
How can we begin life with choices and options, then grow to be limited to the choices and options that we discover are outside of our educational system? The OPTION of being in one ACCORD with The Creator is always present. Parents often give up too soon on their children unless there’s some type of benefit involved. When it comes time for a child to ELECT that which whose lead they will follow, we as parents must allow for that separation to occur. For as Human Beings, we cannot move backwards. Going towards the past is always detrimental. If the prayer states “give us THIS DAY our daily bread”, that means that yesterday doesn’t exist. It means that every step forward after the fight is our new destination. We cannot go backwards to continue the fight we have Al’Ready won, we are telling the Universe that we are not ready to accept what’s ahead of us. By not accepting what’s ahead we put others in a place of stagnation. We force others to hold on to a situation that has already taken a turn for the worse. As much as we try to mend it, the picture will never be perfected, the feelings won’t be the same, and there will always be distance in between both parties. That is rather forgiveness has taken place or not. What we go back to will never be the same, but what we move forward with offers us a brand-new sense of relief. Sometimes, new is good because not too many people are willing to work through their issues and change to be able to fix that what was once broken. Going from the past to the present is the same as going from darkness to light.
Here is when and why we leave the Children to The Highest. Rather they are children in adolescent, young adults, or immature adults, every individual has their own PREFERENCE and point of reference. They are often energetically pulled towards their likeness. This SELECTION is personal because it relates to the stage of life that they are in. However, learning must take place there, there is always a lesson to learn when we choose to not listen to the person The Creator ordained to guide us. We cannot be combined with someone that is too far behind to too far ahead. The range of preference and selection has to make sense. There has to be some form of communication and understanding taking place so that both parties can grow. Two people must be able to verbally express how they feel and learn from one another without animosity or the harboring of feelings. True learning and growing cannot take place in toxic environments. We leave the Children to The Highest when we can no longer serve their needs. Some may have DEVICES that they may not be ready to let go of. The devices they use to function may not be welcomed in your atmosphere. You may have even overcome the use of those devices yourself. As stated above, it wouldn’t be wise to return to the past.
As adults we must be aware of the unconscious acts of PREDISPOSING children to things can influence them to take the wrong path. Although, at times situations as these do occur purposely, for those who do not purposely do this, if done, we must hold ourselves accountable in the fixing of our mistake by offering redirection. The choices we make for ourselves doesn’t only affect us; it affects everyone involved with that individual. The predisposition of a child or child-like habits is directly linked to who they attached themselves to, more than likely the other person has a similar habit that they cannot break themselves. That INCLINATION of habits, addictions, strongholds, co-dependency, or bondages comes from our discernment. We are inclined to help, or we are inclined to release. The burden of others is not always for us to carry. We can lead people in the direction of help and where they need to go. If we do not release ourselves from their struggles, they may have a TENDENCY to keep relying on us, draining us, and using us a crutch to sustain their bad habits. Do we want to remain tied down to other people’s lack of growth or do we want to keep elevating?
It is at our own DISCRETION to not discredit our own level of maturity. It is at our own discretion to turn towards The Most High for help. It is at our own discretion to leave people behind. It is at our own discretion to keep moving forward. It is at our own discretion how we experience fate and/or destiny. If Human Beings clip our wings, pray to The Creator to grow you a new pair. There is always light at the end of the dark tunnels. We cannot feel guilty for how our children end up, for they are the children of God before they are channeled to Earth through us to be guided towards Autonomy. Upon their return to Our Creator, we give thanks for their return, for we know that their mission is complete, and their lessons have been learned. Some get to start over fresh and new, others, well, we leave them to that who created them.
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